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<i>Coming up! Jada Edwards</i>
<i>invites you on a journey</i>

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<i>to transform your relationship</i>
<i>with God and people.</i>

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&gt;&gt; If I only receive --
I'm going to make up a number,

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50% of the love
God has for me,

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and then I'm trying
to love people with 100%,

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that's not even possible.

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But to be this kind
of pass-through,

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this vessel that says
I can receive God's love,

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and because his love never
runs out, he can fill me

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and then my overflow
is going to people.

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♪

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TAMMY: Hello, everybody.

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Welcome to <i>Life Today</i>.

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I'm Tammy Trent,

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and I'm so glad you're here.

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Let me ask you.

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Have you ever found yourself

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saying, I want to love people

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better?

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But honestly, when it comes

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down to friends or family

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conflict, workplace tension,

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or even dealing

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with strangers,

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love suddenly feels

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more complicated than

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you'd like to admit.

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Maybe you're just tired

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of the weight of it all.

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Or maybe you've been on

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the receiving end of a love

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that let you down.

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It left you a little more

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guarded, maybe hesitant.

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Well, here's the good news.

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God never intended love to be

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something we fake or force.

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His love is meant to flow

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through us, shaping the way

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we treat people,

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restoring relationships,

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and even transforming

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how we see ourselves.

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When we catch his vision

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for love,

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it changes everything.

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It heals. It forgives.

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It transforms -- not only

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the people around us,

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but us too.

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That's exactly what

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we're talking about today.

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My guest, Jada Edwards,

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is an author, speaker,

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and Bible teacher with deep,

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rich wisdom for everyday life.

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In her new book, <i>A New Way</i>

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<i>to Love Your Neighbor</i>,

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she challenges us to redefine

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love from God's perspective,

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not culture's.

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She shows us how to walk

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in a redeemed love that brings

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healing and true connection

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to every relationship we have.

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So welcome with me

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my guest, Jada Edwards.

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It's so great

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to have you here.

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JADA: I'm excited to be here.

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TAMMY: Tell us a little bit

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about your growing up years

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and maybe how some of

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your early life's experience

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had something to do with

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the way you love,

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the way you felt love,

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or maybe the way

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you didn't feel love?

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JADA: That's a great question,

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and I think foundational

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to this whole thing.

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So I was, I am a firstborn.

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That's important.

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I tell people, who you were

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in your family is important.

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Like did you feel a sense

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of responsibility where

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you kind of partnered with

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your parents,

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like firstborns are, usually.

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I think it kind of can stir up

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an achiever kind of thinking

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for a lot of us.

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I'm wired that way, anyway.

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Just God-given --

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I want to give you the best.

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I want to be first, and then

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I have to apologize later,

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is just who I am.

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But that feeds it too,

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you know?

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My dad is that way.

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I'm more like my dad.

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Those things really shaped me

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because he and I kind of saw

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the world the same way.

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And he was like, Be the best.

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I was like, Yes, be the best.

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And I know that wasn't

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his intention but however

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that child is wired is how

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you begin to interpret love.

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So he's going to be big

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on congratulations

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and acknowledgment

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when you do well.

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He was not like --

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failure was just --

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he's like, No, be great.

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You can be great.

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I want to play sports.

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And was like, Well, you know,

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you need a C to pass, a 70.

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He was like,

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not in this household.

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You need an 80, you need a B

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to stay in sports.

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TAMMY: Was that love for you?

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JADA: Yes, and some of that

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was just how I loved myself.

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I felt best when

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I was doing well.

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So then as you get older,

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it shapes how

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you enter relationships.

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Things you might do to keep

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a friendship because you like

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friends versus wisdom when

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you know to let something go.

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So those early years mixed

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with who I am as a person

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really did have me kind of

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centered toward just do well

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and be liked and achieve.

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Keep your life together,

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at least on the outside,

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and you'll be loved.

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TAMMY: That's an interesting

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definition, sort of, of love.

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But, you know, I think

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so many of us can have

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our definitions way off.

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So let's start by

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defining what love is.

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Can you define

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like what is love?

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Even from God's perspective,

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what is love?

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JADA: Well, if you're

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thinking foundational

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biblical love, agape,

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or agapao, which is the verb

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form of to be loving,

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God's idea of love, the way

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he's expressed that is really

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this divine benevolence.

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It's a divine charity

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that says, I am the one

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who gives the love,

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and I determine

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what you're valued at.

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I determine how I'm going

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to bestow love on you.

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I decide to love you

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with everything.

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So it already messes up

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our human sensibilities

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because it's not earned.

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And we typically are saying,

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I love you.

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I may start at 100 like that

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teacher grading that test,

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but you're knocking down

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points every time

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you disappoint me.

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My love tends to move in

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proportion to how you respond.

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You hurt my feelings

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too many times in a row.

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You betrayed me.

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You're not trustworthy.

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So then our love is

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so shifting it's really

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being determined by the person

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we're loving, not by the one

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doing the loving.

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God says it doesn't matter

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what you do.

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I am the bestower of the love

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so my love doesn't change

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because I don't change.

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So even though you change,

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Jada, my love does not.

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That alone is enough.

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I think I sit dumbfounded --

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and I've been

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a Christian forever.

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I was born in church.

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But doing this study,

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I was like, really?

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Like, it never changes?

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He was like, No.

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That concept is --

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it's relief,

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it's overwhelming,

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it's gratitude.

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But it just messes with

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our human sensibility.

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We are not wired that way.

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TAMMY: No, we're not.

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I also wonder if it's true

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that we only have love

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to the extent that

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we understand God's love

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for us.

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Like we love other people

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to the extent that

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we understand.

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Can you talk about that

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a little bit?

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Like explain that to me,

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because I think that's true.

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I only think God loves --

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like He loves me here

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but then here and then --.

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So I think people

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only can love here.

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There's a condition.

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JADA: Yes, there's limits.

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And so, to the extent that

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I have received God's love,

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to that extent I can

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then offer love.

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Because if I believe that

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I am not the source of love,

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that God is love, that

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all things that are truly,

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purely loving come from God,

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then that means I have to be

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so inhabited with this source

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that I'm able to then

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love freely.

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Because if I only receive --

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I'm going to make up

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a number, 50% of the love

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God has for me, and then

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I'm trying to love people

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with 100% that's not

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even possible.

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I can't even love them

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with 50 because

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I need some for myself.

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So that means you might

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get 20%, 30%, depending on

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what I've got left to give.

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But once I've placed myself

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-- once we do the work

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of really understanding

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the things that have kept us

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from receiving God's love,

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because that's a journey,

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and then getting to a point

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where we're never going

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to be perfect, but to be

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this kind of pass-through,

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this vessel that says

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I can receive God's love,

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and because his love never

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runs out, he can fill me

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and then my overflow

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is going to people.

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So I stay full

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when I love you.

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It doesn't take anything

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from me.

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He keeps giving to me

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when you hurt my feelings.

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It's okay, He doesn't.

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So it's like I don't need you

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to heal me,

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I just keep loving.

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It's just this strange,

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divine kind of conduit

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where you're like,

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I can receive it and give it.

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It's a whole thing.

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TAMMY: It is a whole thing.

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I think about the people

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that have been really hurt,

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have been betrayed,

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have felt rejection

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from people they trusted,

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where love was supposed

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to pour into their lives

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but they have felt all

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of those things throughout

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their entire life.

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How can they see love

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in a different way?

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JADA: So there's a couple

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of things with that.

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Psalm 139 is really one of

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my pivotal passages when

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I talk about knowing yourself.

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Because the culture can

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talk about it from

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a self-centered way, like,

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I just need to know myself

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and love myself.

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It's not really that.

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But in Psalm 139,

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David spends all this time

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basically to establish

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the truth that God

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always knows where he is.

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He can't leave God's presence.

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God, you know the words

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before they're formed

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on my lips.

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You know the thoughts before

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-- all these things.

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It's the fearfully

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and wonderfully made,

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you formed me

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in my mother's womb.

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You know everything.

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Wherever I go, you know.

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Then he concludes that Psalm

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in verses 23 and 24 and says,

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"Search me. Search me.

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If there's anything anxious

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in me or grievous,"

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depending on the translation,

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"show me that and then

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lead me in righteousness."

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So David, asking that

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of God is clearly

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not so God can know him.

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He's already spent this

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whole psalm establishing,

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you know me.

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He's not saying, search me

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so you can get to know me.

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He's saying, search me

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so you can show me

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what you know about me.

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I think if you're trying to

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do any kind of internal work

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without asking God

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to lead the search,

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you're just going

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to hit the wall.

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God has to lead the search.

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Search and surrender.

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So I can't even articulate

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what my own childhood

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was like,

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or when I felt betrayed

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by a spouse or a friend

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because I was in it.

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I mean, I know how I feel

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about it, but only God knows

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what that's meant in my life.

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And then he can say, Jada,

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let me tell you

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about that wound.

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This is what happened,

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and let me tell you

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how I can heal that.

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That healing journey,

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you never reach a finish line.

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But you've got to be

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in hot pursuit of wholeness.

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That's what I always say.

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Are you in hot pursuit

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of wholeness?

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Because what I want to give

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people is the whole

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version of myself.

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Because then, I'm able to ask

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God, What does that look like

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to love Tammy well?

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Tammy hurt my feelings.

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She deeply betrayed me

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as a friend ten years ago,

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(I'm making things up.)

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Don't email Tammy!

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TAMMY: I did? I'm sorry!

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JADA: If that's the case,

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God can show me how to deal

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with that hurt,

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I don't have to ignore it.

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How to even set a healthy

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boundary and still be loving.

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Because otherwise we'll just

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say I'm cutting Tammy off.

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But God doesn't cut us off.

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He sets boundaries for us,

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but he doesn't cut us off.

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And so, if we don't

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let that healing

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and that wholeness

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drive the way we love,

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we will decide what's best.

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There was a person that hurt

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my feelings a few years ago,

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and then they ended up

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not being in my space

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anymore, they moved.

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I was like, Oh, great!

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And so, I was like,

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Well, you know what?

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I've forgiven them.

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I worked through it.

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I knew what they did,

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blah, blah, blah.

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Well, then we had to be

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in the same space about

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four years later, and I could

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not believe the anxiety

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I was feeling in my heart,

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knowing we were about to be

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in the same room together.

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I was like, you know what?

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It's because they said this,

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and dah-da-dah.

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God was like, No, it's because

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you haven't forgiven them.

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You haven't forgiven them,

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and so that means

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you're not loving them well.

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I was like, How do I love

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this person well?

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And so, he's like, Ask me.

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Because I do not want

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to go have a conversation.

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And the Lord was like,

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I'm not going to make you

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have a conversation.

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Let's me and

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you talk about it.

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Do you wish well

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for that person?

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Do you want them to succeed?

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Do you want them to thrive?

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Do you care for their soul

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more than you care

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for how they hurt you?

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Like that kind of stuff.

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So, that whole process he was

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like, you have to love well.

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They may not talk to you,

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you may not need to talk

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to them, but first,

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your heart has to be right.

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Because what if I put you

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in a room and I need you

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to pray for them?

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The way they hurt you

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is no excuse.

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He's like, Can I take you

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to the garden with my three

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closest men that failed me?

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I didn't cut them off.

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They fell asleep on me

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3 times in my deepest need.

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I did not unfriend them.

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I didn't block them.

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I didn't say,

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You're not invited.

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Matter of fact, I called

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one of them to lead

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the church.

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So, you can't just

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be cutting people off.

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You've got to ask me.

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He prepared my heart, and

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when I got in the same room

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with that person,

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I just could not believe

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how light I felt.

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And we did some small talk

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and I was like,

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man, I survived it.

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And then the person came

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up to me before I left,

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and out of the blue

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they said, "I know this

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may not make sense, but

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I need to apologize to you."

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I'm going to cry.

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It was a whole moment.

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But I believe the Lord

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was challenging me to say,

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This apology cannot be

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the reason why you love well.

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Some people will

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never apologize.

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Some people are in the grave,

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they can't.

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You've got to be whole

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and know how to love the way

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I've asked you to whether

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that person ever

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acknowledges or not.

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The apology just felt

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like icing at that time.

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There was a moment where

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it would have been necessary

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for me to even engage.

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And that love, God was like,

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huh-uh, that's not

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how I love you.

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So, it's not that hurt

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is not legitimate in pain

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and betrayal, but we've got

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to let the Lord drive

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how we're going to engage

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with people, because

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he'll show you how to do it

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and still represent him well.

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TAMMY: And I think even on

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that same story, it's like,

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you thought you forgave her.

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JADA: I really did.

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TAMMY: Right?

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So did you realize then when

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you're in that anxiety stuff,

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like I haven't fully forgiven?

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Because I think forgiveness

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plays a massive role

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in loving well.

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JADA: Yes, it does.

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And you can ask yourself,

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the Holy Spirit will

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challenge you.

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Do you wish well

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for this person?

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Do you want the best?

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Do you pray for their success?

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Do you pray that

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they are thriving right now?

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If you're not praying that,

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you're just praying

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to stay awake.

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TAMMY: How do I know

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if it's genuine?

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Because so many times,

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if someone has hurt me, too.

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I'm like, Father, Jesus,

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I release that.

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And I'm praying for them

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and I do wish them well,

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and then they pop up

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on a social media

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and you're like, Mmhmm!

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JADA: That's how you know.

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Really!

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It's search me. Search me.

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I'm always asking that

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question because the longer

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you walk with Jesus,

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you'll know lip service.

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You'll know what to say.

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You'll know how to say it,

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you'll know how to pray it,

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but your heart -- listen.

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The Holy Spirit will go,

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Do you really?

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And he will tell you,

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because listen,

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I patted myself on the back.

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I was like, Good job, Jada.

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You're so mature.

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TAMMY: You've come

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a long way, girl!

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JADA: Look at you, girl!

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The Holy Spirit is like, Ehh.

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Put the brakes on that.

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TAMMY: Yeah, exactly.

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So let's talk about

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a world divided.

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We are so --

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in so many ways, I feel

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like we're so united,

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but in so many ways

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we're so divided.

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I feel like so much of that

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like exacerbated in 2020.

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You know what I mean?

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Like everything was

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just crashing down.

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I don't know that the church

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did such a great job

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at uniting us.

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Talk to me a little bit

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about the division

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that we face and how

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it plays a role.

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JADA: It was huge,

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a huge impetus for even

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this book because I was --

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it just hit me like,

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oh, Jesus says in John

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that the mark of being his

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is that we will love

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each other well.

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He's like, they'll know

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you're mine by the way

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you love, not by how often

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you attend church,

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how big your church is,

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how many conferences,

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how many Bible studies,

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how many devotionals.

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He was like, That's not

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the mark.

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The mark is that when

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it doesn't make sense,

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somebody will say, Man,

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she still loved well --

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he still loved well.

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So, when I would see things

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in the comment section,

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people are just hateful,

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things they wouldn't say

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to your face.

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Just anything.

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Then you go to the person's

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profile, and they're like,

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Son of the King.

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Daughter of the living –-

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What? What?

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That's when the Lord was like,

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Yeah, we've missed this, Jada.

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We're reducing it

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to random acts of kindness.

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We've missed that it is

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a divine calling

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to always bestow charity.

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It is divine benevolence.

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I'm always giving something

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to you regardless of

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what you've done or said.

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So that division, I think,

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should have been

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an opportunity,

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especially for believers

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in the church.

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But we did not show up well.

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The global church

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did not show up well.

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And so how are we expecting

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the world to hold hands

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and sing a song when we are

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not even doing --

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you know what I'm saying?

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So it just became a driver

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that I needed to open

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my eyes to.

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TAMMY: Is that where

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the book came from?

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JADA: Absolutely.

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It came from that.

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It came from things in

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my own personal life

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with marriage and kids,

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where I was frustrated

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with everybody because clearly

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it couldn't have been me.

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everybody needs to get

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their life together!

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But I needed to get my life

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together first.

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TAMMY: Everybody speak

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into our life.

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So when I think about

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this book and who it might

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be for, when you were writing

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every page and you got

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to the end of the book,

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who did you have in mind?

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JADA: I had in mind

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the whole world.

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And that sounds so crazy but

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John 316, probably one of

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the most often-quoted

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and sometimes misused verses:

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God so loved the world.

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So for the unbeliever,

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that is like, I'm not sure

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what I think about this God

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and Jesus thing.

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He loves you regardless;

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find your way to him.

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For the believer

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who is dealing with hurt,

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pain, unforgiveness,

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he loves you.

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Ask him to bring that healing.

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And for the one who thinks

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they might be in a pretty

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good place, but they have

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one or two people who kind of

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rub them the wrong way,

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He's asking for fullness.

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He wants that wholeness

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to show up because

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he's looking to use you

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as a representative.

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So wherever you are

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on the spectrum, because

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God so loved the world.

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And for the people

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who are not his yet,

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just receive his love.

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If you still haven't

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fully received and you're his,

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be there.

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But if you know you're

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in this place, he's like,

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now, love your neighbor

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the way I've loved you.

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So wherever you are

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on the spectrum, there's

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a place for you to start.

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TAMMY: I'm telling you

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right now, that's a good word.

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And for anybody that feels

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maybe distant or

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disconnected from God,

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it's a lonely place to be.

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It's so lonely.

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And just as Jada said,

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I mean, you first have

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to understand God's love

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for you.

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Tap into that today.

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If you're struggling with that

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or struggling to

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love others well, go to Jesus.

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Tap into his love for you.

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When that begins to anchor

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your soul, I think it begins

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to change a lot of things

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in your life all around you.

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So if you're struggling

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with that today, would you

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let us pray with you?

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Would you let us

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come alongside you?

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There's a number

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on your screen.

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Give us a call.

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Let us just pray with you.

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Let us start there today,

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understanding God's love

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for you and the journey

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you're on right now

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and how it will affect

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everything around you.

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And also right now, there are

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some incredible people

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around the world doing

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some incredible work,

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rescuing some

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precious children.

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I'm telling you, they have

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learned to love well.

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I've seen it with my eyes,

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with every reach,

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with every rescue,

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with every restore.

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And I want to show you

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something right now.

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Watch this.

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SHOVANNA: The effects of
trafficking is horrendous.

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It's such a black hole, and
very few want to go in there

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and really understand
what it can do

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to another human being.

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SHOVANNA: I've seen women
who have been so devastated.

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They see no life
going forward

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after they have been
practically destroyed.

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They see no value
in life.

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<i>In the midst of this</i>
<i>despair and depravity,</i>

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<i>Life Outreach has partners</i>
<i>on the ground</i>

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<i>in several countries</i>
<i>who are actively</i>

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<i>rescuing those lost</i>
<i>but not forgotten.</i>

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CLAYTON:
We just finished our largest
rescue operation to date,

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resulting in the rescue
of 62 victims

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of human trafficking

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and the rest
of ten traffickers.

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We're just thanking God
for this.

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So be celebrating with us,
because we couldn't have

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done this without you
and your partnership.

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But also be praying for those
who are starting the long road

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of healing from
such a traumatic experience.

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And so thank you,
thank you, thank you.

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<i>You can be part of this story</i>
<i>of reaching the vulnerable,</i>

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<i>rescuing the captive,</i>
<i>and restoring every life.</i>

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<i>It can only</i>
<i>be made possible</i>

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<i>by someone who chooses</i>
<i>to care.</i>

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<i>Join with Life Outreach</i>
<i>and our partners,</i>

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<i>and you will be providing</i>
<i>the gift of freedom,</i>

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<i>the gift</i>
<i>of a new life.</i>

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TAMMY: My insides scream,

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Make it stop!

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Every time I see

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a story like that.

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I hate the darkness.

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I hate this kind of evil.

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I cannot stand what it's doing

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to these precious women

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and children

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all over the world.

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But one day -- one day,

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God will have the final word.

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Every evil doer

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will face justice.

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But in the meantime,

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God is sending us his people

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to help wherever

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and whenever we can.

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Because it not only changes

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the lives of these children,

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it changes us, too.

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And together we are making

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a difference, a life-altering

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difference for as many

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as we can reach.

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What happens to a little girl

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or boy when they're lured,

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tricked, or even sold into

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the horrors of trafficking?

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I've seen their faces.

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I've heard their stories.

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And it's a darkness so deep

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it's hard to even put

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into words.

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Many of these children

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lose all sense of value,

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of worth, of dignity,

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all sense of hope.

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They feel forgotten

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and completely lost

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and alone.

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They begin to believe

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there's no life ahead for them

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-- no way out.

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But there is hope.

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There is rescue.

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That's what Rescue Life

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is all about.

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Our partners on the ground

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in Southeast Asia are

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reaching the vulnerable,

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rescuing the captive,

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and walking with them

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toward healing and restoration

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one child at a time.

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But here's the reality.

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Our rescue centers

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in Southeast Asia are still

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at full capacity right now.

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And even though we were able

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to secure another

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rescue life center, it still

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needs significant renovations

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before it can be

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a safe haven.

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So far, we've been able

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to raise half of

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our $1.25 million goal.

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But until the funds come in

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and those renovations

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are complete,

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the doors cannot fully open.

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That means children who need

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to be rescued today

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have nowhere to go.

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We cannot, we must not

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leave them waiting.

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That's why this new

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Rescue Life Center

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is so incredibly urgent,

00:23:47.192 --> 00:23:48.260 align:start line:58% position:10% size:40%
because the need

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is so incredibly urgent.

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So let me tell you about

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the need today.

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With a gift of $128,

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you can help rescue one child

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from the nightmare

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of human trafficking.

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A gift of $1,280 will help

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reach, rescue, and restore

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ten children.

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And for those of you

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who would and can,

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can you prayerfully

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and would you prayerfully

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consider giving something

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extra above and beyond

00:24:10.782 --> 00:24:11.750 align:start line:58% position:10% size:40%
to help complete

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this Rescue Life Center?

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See, every dollar

00:24:14.452 --> 00:24:15.587 align:start line:58% position:10% size:35%
is a lifeline.

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Every gift declares these

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children are not forgotten,

00:24:19.057 --> 00:24:21.092 align:start line:58% position:10% size:65%
but freedom is on the way.

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Psalms 82:4 says: "Rescue

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the weak and the needy.

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Deliver them from

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the hand of the wicked."

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That's exactly what your gift

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will do today.

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Don't wait.

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Go online or call right now.

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Help us rescue another child

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today and let us finish

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this rescue center right now

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so not one more child

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has to be turned away.

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<i>Innocent children, longing</i>
<i>to be loved and cared for,</i>

00:24:46.284 --> 00:24:48.220 align:center line:10% position:50% size:45%
<i>are being abducted</i>
<i>and sold</i>

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<i>into the evil industry</i>
<i>of human trafficking.</i>

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<i>Through Mission: Rescue Life,</i>
<i>your gift today of only $128</i>

00:24:55.060 --> 00:24:57.929 align:center line:10% position:40% size:60%
<i>will help reach, rescue,</i>
<i>or restore a child</i>

00:24:57.996 --> 00:25:00.198 align:center line:10% position:38% size:55%
<i>and change</i>
<i>their destiny forever.</i>

00:25:00.265 --> 00:25:03.568 align:start line:10% position:43% size:48%
<i>Gifts of $64 or $32</i>
<i>will be combined</i>

00:25:03.635 --> 00:25:06.338 align:center line:10% position:55% size:73%
<i>with support from others</i>
<i>to help rescue one more child</i>

00:25:06.404 --> 00:25:09.307 align:center line:10% position:63% size:58%
<i>from the shame and pain</i>
<i>of sexual slavery.</i>

00:25:09.374 --> 00:25:12.177 align:start line:58% position:18% size:65%
<i>Currently, our LIFE rescue</i>
<i>centers in Southeast Asia</i>

00:25:12.244 --> 00:25:14.279 align:center line:58% position:50% size:43%
<i>are at</i>
<i>maximum capacity.</i>

00:25:14.346 --> 00:25:16.314 align:start line:58% position:25% size:48%
<i>More space</i>
<i>is urgently needed,</i>

00:25:16.381 --> 00:25:18.383 align:center line:58% position:50% size:50%
<i>and we must complete</i>
<i>and renovate</i>

00:25:18.450 --> 00:25:20.485 align:center line:58% position:50% size:43%
<i>a new rescue home</i>
<i>immediately.</i>

00:25:20.552 --> 00:25:23.188 align:start line:58% position:18% size:63%
<i>Please consider</i>
<i>a very special extra gift</i>

00:25:23.255 --> 00:25:27.759 align:center line:53% position:50% size:48%
<i>as we urgently need</i>
<i>$1.25 million above</i>
<i>our normal budget</i>

00:25:27.826 --> 00:25:30.528 align:center line:58% position:50% size:60%
<i>to complete and renovate</i>
<i>this place of hope.</i>

00:25:30.595 --> 00:25:32.564 align:start line:10% position:18% size:65%
<i>With a gift of any amount,</i>
<i>we'll send you</i>

00:25:32.631 --> 00:25:34.966 align:center line:10% position:50% size:68%
<i>Power, Provision and Peace:</i>
<i>Bringing together</i>

00:25:35.033 --> 00:25:37.402 align:center line:10% position:50% size:60%
<i>the life-changing truths</i>
<i>of Acts, Romans, and</i>

00:25:37.469 --> 00:25:40.338 align:center line:10% position:50% size:70%
<i>First and Second Corinthians</i>
<i>in the Passion Translation.</i>

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<i>These books come alive</i>
<i>with fresh revelation</i>

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<i>and timeless power.</i>

00:25:44.576 --> 00:25:46.811 align:start line:10% position:23% size:55%
<i>With your gift of $128</i>
<i>or more,</i>

00:25:46.878 --> 00:25:48.914 align:center line:10% position:50% size:55%
<i>you'll receive</i>
<i>the beautiful and soft</i>

00:25:48.980 --> 00:25:50.949 align:center line:10% position:50% size:60%
<i>"Perfect Peace Blanket,"</i>
<i>bearing the words</i>

00:25:51.016 --> 00:25:53.852 align:center line:10% position:50% size:60%
<i>of Isaiah 26:3</i>
<i>as a meaningful reminder</i>

00:25:53.919 --> 00:25:56.988 align:center line:10% position:50% size:70%
<i>that those who trust</i>
<i>in the Lord are never alone.</i>

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<i>Finally, please consider</i>
<i>a gift of $1,280,</i>

00:26:00.292 --> 00:26:02.294 align:center line:10% position:35% size:50%
<i>which will help save</i>
<i>ten children,</i>

00:26:02.360 --> 00:26:04.362 align:center line:10% position:38% size:53%
<i>and you may</i>
<i>request our inspiring</i>

00:26:04.429 --> 00:26:06.431 align:center line:10% position:33% size:43%
<i>bronze sculpture,</i>
<i>"Lion of Judah."</i>

00:26:06.498 --> 00:26:09.968 align:start line:10% position:15% size:68%
<i>Please call, write, or make</i>
<i>your gift online.</i>

00:26:13.338 --> 00:26:14.572 align:start line:58% position:10% size:50%
TAMMY: I hope you're

00:26:14.639 --> 00:26:15.740 align:start line:58% position:10% size:40%
going online and

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giving the best gift that

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you possibly can give.

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You must know it will make

00:26:19.010 --> 00:26:20.145 align:start line:58% position:10% size:53%
an eternal difference

00:26:20.211 --> 00:26:21.313 align:start line:58% position:10% size:75%
in the lives of so many today.

00:26:21.379 --> 00:26:22.414 align:start line:58% position:10% size:53%
And for whatever gift

00:26:22.480 --> 00:26:23.515 align:start line:58% position:10% size:63%
you can give today toward

00:26:23.581 --> 00:26:24.582 align:start line:58% position:10% size:63%
this mission, we're going

00:26:24.649 --> 00:26:25.917 align:start line:58% position:10% size:70%
to send you Jada's new book,

00:26:25.984 --> 00:26:27.018 align:start line:58% position:10% size:43%
<i>A New Way to Love</i>

00:26:27.085 --> 00:26:28.086 align:start line:58% position:10% size:35%
<i>Your Neighbor</i>.

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So make sure to request it

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when you call and

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we'll get it right out to you.

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Jada, I have loved this time

00:26:33.591 --> 00:26:34.592 align:start line:58% position:10% size:43%
with you so much.

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Any last words you have

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for us?

00:26:36.861 --> 00:26:37.929 align:start line:58% position:10% size:58%
JADA: God has loved you

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so fully and so perfectly

00:26:39.130 --> 00:26:41.533 align:start line:58% position:10% size:63%
that only the enemy wants

00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:42.901 align:start line:58% position:10% size:55%
a relationship failure

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or a human failure to impact

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the way you receive

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God's love.

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If you receive God's love

00:26:48.573 --> 00:26:50.675 align:start line:58% position:10% size:50%
fully, I promise you

00:26:50.742 --> 00:26:51.910 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
the overflow will change

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all of your relationships.

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So my prayer is that you ask

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God where there's gaps

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in how you have been receiving

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his love, and let him

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fill those for you.

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And then I promise you,

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everything will change

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because of that.

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TAMMY: Amen.

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Girl, let him step in the gap.

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Let him step in the gap!

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God bless you so much

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and God bless you.

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Thanks for watching.

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We'll see you next time

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on<i> Life Today</i>.

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Bye-bye!

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&gt;&gt; This is a real realm,
and the mistake we make

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is exactly what you said,
which is ignoring it

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and pretending
it doesn't exist.

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<i>Seeing the Supernatural.</i>

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<i>LIFE Today is made</i>
<i>possible by the supporters of</i>
<i>LIFE Outreach International.</i>

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<i>Your gift will be</i>
<i>used exclusively for</i>
<i>the exempt purposes of LIFE.</i>

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<i>The ministry features</i>
<i>specific outreaches</i>

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<i>as examples of the programs</i>
<i>it supports and conducts.</i>

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<i>Gifts are considered</i>
<i>to be without restriction</i>

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<i>as to use unless explicitly</i>
<i>stipulated by the donor.</i>

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<i>The ministry is a member</i>
<i>of the ECFA.</i>