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male announcer: The following
program is sponsored by friends

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of Life Outreach International.

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Mark Moore: I think there's
an inverse ratio to wisdom

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and information.

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And the more information we
have, the less wisdom we have.

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And with the advent of AI, it's
about to get a whole lot worse.

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I think this is so timely
because it is about to get a

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whole lot worse.

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People are searching
for this kind of wisdom.

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announcer: Mark Moore has
identified 52 areas of wisdom

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that cultivate meaningful habits
and virtues in a world

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filled with cultural chaos.

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Randy Robison:
Welcome to "Life Today."

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I'm Randy Robison.
Great to have you here.

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Blynda Lane is with me today.

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It's great to have you
on the set.

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Blynda Lane: Thanks
for having me.

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It's a real honor to be here.
I have a lot of fun with you.

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Randy: Well, good.
I hope so.

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You and Tammy have done a great
job, and so I'm glad to be able

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to sit down with you.

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We also have a wonderful guest
with us today, and I know that

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you are going to learn a lot and
be inspired, because our guest,

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Mark Moore, has a book called
"Wisdom 52" that is out now,

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just came out.

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And many of you have read "Core
52," so if you know that one

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you're gonna be interested.

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But Mark joins us.

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Mark, welcome to "Life Today."

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Mark Moore: It's an honor to be
here with you guys, both of you.

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Thank you for having me.

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Randy: So, jump into this.

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So people that don't know the
"Core 52" or the "Wisdom 52,"

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they're like, what's the number
thing here?

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What do you--frame this up, what
you're talking about.

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Mark: Well, I work at a church
in Phoenix, Arizona, and we have

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a lot of people come who aren't
familiar with the Bible, so

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that's where Core started.

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They just needed
to know the Bible.

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So I thought if I could give
them one verse per week,

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52 weeks a year.

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Randy: There you go.

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Mark: So it's kind of, it's been
helpful for churches to even go

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through it with a series, and it
allows people to really get a

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handle week by week, get into
the Word of God in a way

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that's practical.

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We need to know how
to live this stuff.

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Blynda: And I love it
because--it's funny because when

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I heard "Wisdom 52" and I'm
thinking, "Well, there's only 31

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books in Proverbs.

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What's the 52?"

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And then when I realized, oh
yeah, you're gonna take them

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week by week.

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And it's kind of a culmination
of a lot of the Proverbs

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each time.

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You're not just focusing on one
every time.

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What I found fascinating though
is just the idea that you took a

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book of wisdom and applied it to
a culture that probably doesn't

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actually think living by a book
of wisdom is that important.

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We kind of come up
with our own truth.

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We dictate our own way.

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So when you wanted to--after
"Core 52," what made you want to

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write a book about the wisdom
literature of the Bible?

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Mark: Yeah, and originally I
didn't have a plan to do

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52 weeks.

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This book started 25 years ago
when a friend of mine confronted

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me and said, "You're a gossip.

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It's not a good look."

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But I couldn't deny it.

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I was using my words to
artificially build myself up by

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tearing other people down.

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And you can do it with like,
"this is a prayer request" or

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however you articulate it.

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I thought I was fooling
everybody.

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I was fooling no one.

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And so I had to look in the
mirror and say, "You know what,

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I am a gossip.

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And I don't want
to be a gossip."

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So I went to Proverbs.

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I read every verse in Proverbs
on taming the tongue, and it

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healed me.

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The practical wisdom of
here's what's happening.

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And it took me probably two
years to dig into it because I

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had to think, "Okay,
why am I gossiping?"

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It wasn't because I was mean.

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It was because I was insecure.

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And I didn't feel like I could
validly lift myself up, so I

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would artificially tear someone
else down.

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For me, gossip was the same sin
as bragging, because bragging,

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again, artificially building
yourself up, gossip is

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artificially tearing someone
else down.

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It's also, for me it was the
same as flattery.

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And this was, because
encouraging someone else is a

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good thing, right?

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You know, you look good today
or man, you're smart or--

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But I found that I was only
flattering people above me

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because I wanted them to think
more of me and lift me up.

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And so as I examined really the
wisdom of Solomon around words,

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I found healing.

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I'm still not perfect, but I
found a lot of healing in that.

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I thought, someday I'm gonna go
through every single Proverb and

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categorize them in ways that
would be helpful for healing

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in life.

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Randy: I have
actually done that.

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I've gone through the entire
book of Proverbs and categorized

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them all.

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And here's why.

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So most people--

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Mark: You're the only one I've
ever met that did that.

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Randy: I've got--I can
show you my work, right?

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Mark: Please do.

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Blynda: That's why
he's so wise.

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Randy: No, you've
done it, too, though.

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But here's why it's beneficial
to do that, I think, and tell me

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if you experienced this, because
Proverbs is a collection of

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wisdom, of sayings, and it's
repetitive because you'll find

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the same thing here and you'll
find it ten chapters later.

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And so it's by nature kind of
disorganized, and it'll jump

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from one thought
to another thought.

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So when you go through and you
go, okay, everything related to

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flattery or something, or in the
Randy version, don't toot your

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own horn, like that's in
Proverbs, right?

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You know.

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What did you find when you
started putting them into very

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practical, which is what you do
in the book, very practical,

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here's how to live that out
sort of ideas?

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Mark: It was really helpful for
me to do the categories.

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I also then ran each
category backwards

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through the rest
of the Old Testament,

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forward through the rest of
the New Testament.

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Randy: Oh, wow, you did
tons of work on this one.

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Mark: Yeah, so in the book
you're gonna--you're basically

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gonna get with each chapter a
whole Bible theology on gossip,

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on flattery, on encouragement,
on sexuality, on pride.

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And what I saw then was how this
isn't Solomon's wisdom, this is

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actually God's wisdom
through Solomon.

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Another big thing that I
learned, and this is kind of a

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tangent, but I thought, okay,
Sol--I hadn't noticed

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this before.

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Proverbs was written
to "my son."

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Now he had multiple sons.

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Three times it says "my sons,"
plural, but over 20 times,

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"my son."

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Who was that son?

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It was Rehoboam.

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He's the one who
took over the throne.

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And yet the first thing he does,
taking over the throne, is to

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destroy the kingdom.

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So my question was, how could
Solomon be so wise and his son

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be so foolish?

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Because wisdom from your father,
you don't get wisdom from what

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he says, you get wisdom
from what he does.

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And so immediately
I had to think about,

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so how can we then--
how can we help people

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apply these principles?

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Not just know that pithy
aphorism, "Raise up a child in

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the way it should go and when
he's older he will not depart

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from it."

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Okay, that's great.

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How do you do that?

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So I started thinking through
the Proverbs, through the rest

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of the Old Testament,
New Testament.

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Who are the people that lived
these positive attributes, and

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what did they actually do?

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Not theory, what did they do to
carry this out?

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Blynda: It's so interesting,
because one of my favorite

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Proverbs is "The fear of the
Lord is the beginning of

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wisdom," and I feel like even
thinking about Rehoboam, and I

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think even about Solomon, the
end of his life, I'm like, where

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was the guy who--he's the guy
that knew all this and then he

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didn't even live by it.

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And it makes me wonder how much
of that is when you lose the

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fear of the Lord, you no longer
can live by wisdom.

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Mark: It's interesting you say
that because I've thought deeply

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about Solomon's
political career.

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His prayer to God was not wisdom
for his family.

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It was wisdom for the nation.

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And everything he did in his
political life was blessed

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by God.

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His wisdom made him a great
politician, but being a great

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politician doesn't make you a
great parent.

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And in fact, if you trace the
trajectory back, why was Solomon

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not a good father?

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Well, because his father
was a terrible father.

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King David failed every
one of his children.

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Solomon was actually the
fourth child of Bathsheba,

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not the first.

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So this is, he is a--why is
David a failure as a father?

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Well, you go back to Jesse.

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When Samuel comes and wants to
anoint David as king, Jesse has

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him out in the field, and Samuel
has to ask if you have

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another son.

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So the father wound is one of
the great barriers of wisdom.

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Blynda: Wow.

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Randy: Interesting.

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Blynda: That's
really interesting.

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Randy: All right, so you talk
about some things you've

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mentioned, the pride,
the flattery.

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You talk about anger.

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You talk about quarreling.

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There's--I wanna make sure we
hit both of these, because

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Proverbs are full of warnings,
but they're also full

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of promises.

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But tell me about some of the
warnings that you see that we

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really should pay attention to.

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Mark: Pride is the biggest one,
because pride is the mother of

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all sins.

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It's the root of all sins.

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And Proverbs introduces this
idea that really Jesus modeled,

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that--it's a reversal concept,
that those who exalt themselves

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will be humbled, those who
humble themselves will

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be exalted.

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Quick story, my own biography.

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It took me probably into my
forties before I had confidence

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in who I was as a person.

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That's why I was a gossip,
that's why I was a slanderer.

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It's because I was
not sure who I was.

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When I learned--and this
is the fear of the Lord.

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When you fear God and you
get your identity from him,

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you don't fear other
people's opinions.

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So to me, that was the core
identity of finding out who I

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was, so I didn't have to
artificially exalt myself.

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How that manifested was not just
in gossip but in my preaching.

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I was the hero of every story
I told about myself until

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probably 2014.

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At that point, with some great
teamwork at our church, I began

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exploring self-deprecation
in sermons.

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Weirdest thing happened.

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And I have a new rule.

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If I wrote my own book of
Proverbs, this would be in it.

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If you praise yourself
publicly, you will be

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criticized privately.

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If you criticize yourself
publicly, you will be

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praised privately.

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And the book of Proverbs is full
of those kinds of

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practical warnings.

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Pride is a big one.

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Randy: Okay, so give me some of
the positives, because there's

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also good news in Proverbs.

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What's some of the wisdom we can
apply that is not just stay away

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from the bad, but here's how to
develop the good?

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Mark: Yeah, I think generosity
is one of the big things.

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Worship of God is another
one of the big things.

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Valuing your spouse is another
one of the big things.

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And I had an ah-ha moment with
this in the editing process,

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you know, Proverbs 31.

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I mean, what a woman.
It's this kind of woman.

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Blynda: It seems a somewhat
unattainable woman, by the way.

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Mark: So I made a comment that
isn't it interesting that

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Solomon had such a diversity of
opinions about women, because

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the most common complaint in
Proverbs, the most repetitive,

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is, "It is better to live on the
corner of a roof than in a house

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with an angry woman."

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Though true, Solomon had a lot
of experience, because he had a

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lot of women and a
lot of angry women.

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So, I made this comment on his
diversity of opinion and the

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editor corrected me, said
Proverbs 31 was not written

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by Solomon.

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It was written by
King Lemuel's mother,

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which, I played with this.

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I can't prove this.
I think it's true.

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Solomon's wives
were mostly marriages

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for political alliances, right?

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I think King Lemuel gave one of
Solomon's--gave him one of

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his wives.

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So King Lemuel's mother would be
Solomon's grandmother-in-law.

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Blynda: Interesting.

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Mark: So here's
what fascinated me.

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Solomon does have a couple
of beautiful things to say

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about women.

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One of them is the dedication to
my own wife in the book.

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If you find a noble wife, you
find a beautiful thing.

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But most of what Solomon said
was negative about women.

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Could it be that the more women
you have, the less you think of

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the women you have?

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And so, part of the positive of
valuing the woman you have is

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being loyal to her and finding
the prize that God has

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given you.

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Blynda: That's really good.

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Randy: Yeah, that'll preach.

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Blynda: That will preach.

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Okay, so when you were talking
about, you had this revelation

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of kind of the man that you
were, and you wanted to

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be different.

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Did you have people come
alongside you and call

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you higher?

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Is there an idea of how
important mentoring and having

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people around you when you were
writing this book?

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I feel like that would be a
theme also in the Proverbs, of

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how important it is who you
surround yourself with.

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Mark: Yeah, Solomon will later
say in Ecclesiastes, cord of

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three strands.

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There are a couple of chapters
about mentoring, about parents,

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about wise counselors.

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In my own life, part of,
I suppose part of it was,

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I was a professor at
a Bible college.

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Nobody confronts those.

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Nobody confronts senior pastors.

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Nobody confronts
doctors or policemen.

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Those are roles that you're
always the expert, so I had to

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learn to ask for it.

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And Proverbs does give some
really powerful advice about

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pulling into your inner circle
those who are wise, and knowing

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what a wise person actually is.

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So it's almost like Proverbs
provides you a biography or a

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portfolio, a portrait, of the
kind of wise people that you

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want to have in your life.

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But to answer your question, I
had to get over my own pride to

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even ask anyone.

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After that first person
confronted me, I asked him to be

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in an accountability
relationship.

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That couple became five of us,
and then when I moved, I started

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it over again in Phoenix,
because I am only as good as the

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average of my five
closest friends.

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That's true for everybody.

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So raising the status of your
inner circle is--and it won't

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happen by accident,
you have to do that.

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Randy: Was it painful?

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Mark: Oh, asking?
Yes.

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Admitting I needed it, yes.

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Randy: Sticking to it?

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Blynda: And walking
it out, yeah.

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Mark: But it wasn't
near as painful

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as living an unwise life.

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Blynda: That's really good.

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What could somebody watching who
is living for themselves, does

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not believe that they need to
live by the Scripture, by the

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wisdom that's in the book, and
they've just decided to live

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their own way, decided that they
know what truth is.

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Maybe even like you, has pride
and doesn't really let anybody

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speak into their life.

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How can this be detrimental to
them for their future?

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Mark: I don't know that that
person exists.

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I'm sure there are people out
there that live for themselves.

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But at least I'll just speak for
my own life.

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In our church, the people who
come, they know they're

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messed up.

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Maybe they won't admit it
publicly, but they are craving a

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better wisdom.

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I think there's an inverse ratio
to wisdom and information.

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And the more information we
have, the less wisdom we have.

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And with the advent of AI, it's
about to get a whole lot worse.

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I think this is so timely,
because it is about to get a

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whole lot worse.

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And my experience is people are
feeling the pain of, "I don't

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even know how to be married.

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I don't know how to raise this
kid that I just produced.

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I don't know how to get fired
and not go off the handle.

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I need help with anger, with
controlling sexuality, and

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somehow figuring out what to do
with this money that I have, or

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how to get a job that doesn't
drive me crazy and I don't

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shoot someone."

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People are searching
for this kind of wisdom.

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But what you said
is so critical.

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If you're trying to find it on
your own, you probably won't

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find it.

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Proverbs is a group project, not
an individual wisdom project.

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Randy: That's good.

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And you know what's interesting,
because Proverbs addresses this,

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we live in the information age,
like you say, and so knowledge

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is kind of everywhere.

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Like, you know, pick it up and
then I can look up anything.

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I can get knowledge.

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And Proverbs says
knowledge is good.

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Understanding is better.

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And I think I see a lot of
people struggling, "how do I use

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this information," right?

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But the wisdom.

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That goal of figuring out, not
just understanding the

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information, but how to apply
it, how to live it.

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And there's no amount of
artificialness or fake

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intelligence that can do that.

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It's what you're talking about,
it's those things in Proverbs

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and in Scripture.

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Mark: You just said something
that just changed my

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perspective, because I've
written this book thinking,

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okay, this is a book,
it is a book of wisdom.

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Actually the wisdom isn't in the
book, it's in the people of

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the book.

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This can take you to Proverbs,
but Proverbs will always take

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you to people, people who model
the fear of the Lord.

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Wisdom is not from a book, not
my book, not the book

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of Proverbs.

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It's from the people of God
who live this out.

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Randy: Well, and it's not just
the information, it's putting

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it, it's the application.

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It's putting it in,
it's living it out.

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I remember the first time that I
changed the way I treated my

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wife based on something I saw in
Scripture that called me out.

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And I wasn't even really aware
that I was demeaning her in a

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way, not major, but just like,
I'm like, "Oh."

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And then once I realized that
and saw it in Scripture,

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I gained the wisdom.

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I said yes to God and gained the
wisdom and thought, I never

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wanna do that again.

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Mark: Yeah.

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Randy: And it changes
the whole dynamic.

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And that's what
God's wisdom does.

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When we put it into practice,
it changes things.

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There's one more.

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We're out of time,
but we have to hit this.

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You mentioned it a
minute ago, generosity.

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How does that change things?

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Mark: So, when we are
not generous, we are

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inward-focused people.

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The gift of generosity is the
gift of seeing, God has not

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blessed me because he loves me.

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He's blessed me because he wants
to love someone else through me.

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If we get the idea that we are
funnels and not buckets, then

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the joy--it is more blessed
to give than receive.

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We say that.

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But until you experience
generosity, then you don't

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really know why God gave you
that money in the first place.

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And he's given us, of all people
on the whole planet for all

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human history, no one has had
the opportunity

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for generosity--

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One quick thing.

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I think God gives
different spiritual gifts

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to different people.

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He also gives
different spiritual gifts

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to different churches.

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And I think he gives different
spiritual gifts to

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different nations.

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And we have been chosen by God
as a nation for the most

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dangerous spiritual gift, and
that is affluence.

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But the only purpose for
affluence is for generosity.

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Randy: So true, and I know you
know it because you've put it

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into practice.

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I want you to know that, so I'm
gonna give you the opportunity

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to put generosity into practice,
not just say it's great, but do

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it, because it does
change things.

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Watch this and you'll see how.

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[speaking foreign language]

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announcer: Severina and Teresa
unfortunately find themselves

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among the one out of four people
globally that do not have access

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to safe drinking water.

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The reality of this statistic
can be seen throughout an

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overwhelming number of rural
villages in Angola, as mothers

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and children collect water
from unsafe sources.

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The need is both urgent
and widespread.

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Millions of families depend on
unsafe water sources every day,

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not by choice, but by necessity.

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A reliable water well changes
everything immediately and

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for generations.

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John Yeatts: You know, this cup
of water represents life.

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And as I'm standing here in this
village where we put this water

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well almost 20 years ago and
it's still producing life, I am

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reminded that just yesterday we
were standing in a village where

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there is absolutely no clean
water sources, and that more

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than 18 mothers since January
have lost children because of

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hunger and poor water
conditions,

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waterborne illnesses.

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Together, those two things
are a death sentence.

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These villages are in desperate
need of hearing that a well is

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coming to their village.

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We need your help right now to
make sure that we can put a

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water well in each of these
villages that are so desperately

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in need, so that mothers can
quit weeping over the death of a

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child and that they can shed
tears of joy over the life of

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a child.

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The difference is all in how we
help provide in Jesus's name.

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And so I'm asking you,
would you help us?

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Would you help us give a cup of
clean water in Jesus's name?

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Randy: Our goal this year is
to drill 350 wells in 20

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different countries.

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I would love to exceed that.

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It's early in the year,
I'm optimistic.

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But look, the average price,
because we know we've been doing

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this for so many years,
is $4800 for one well.

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And that will change the lives
of hundreds, sometimes thousands

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of people, because it becomes a
place for not just a particular

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village but a whole region.

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Now, some of you can drill a
well and I would ask you to

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do that, just do it.

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Pick up the phone,
go online, do it.

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Now many of you, I understand
that's too far of a reach, but

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you could provide clean drinking
water for 30 people with a gift

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of $144.

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A gift of $48 will provide that
same clean drinking water for an

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average of 70 years, that's why
we call it water for life, for

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10 people.

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Whatever, you can be generous
right now, not just in word or

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in thought, but in deed.

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And when you do, you will be
stepping into what we're talking

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about, because when you put
God's Word into action, he's

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already blessed it.

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He's already done it.

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So this is an opportunity for
you to do that.

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And Mark, I know you've
experienced this, you've done

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it, you've seen it.

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Mark: I will tell you there is
no investment that you will make

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that will give you more bang for
your buck or more joy for

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your heart.

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If you will give for one well,
we promise you we will bring the

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preaching of the Word of God
behind it, so they don't just

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receive water, they'll receive
the water of life.

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Jesus said that anyone who
drinks of him will become a

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spring of living water.

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He didn't say that you
would get water of life.

00:24:03.509 --> 00:24:05.878 align:start line:10% position:50% size:45%
He said you would
become the spring.

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Will you become a spring of life
for hundreds of people that you

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will only see on the other side
of eternity?

00:24:12.117 --> 00:24:14.586 align:start line:10% position:50% size:81%
Randy: You're exactly right, and
I appreciate you saying that

00:24:14.586 --> 00:24:18.057 align:start line:10% position:50% size:81%
because, and Blynda, I know you
know this as well, every time we

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go in and we, whether it's
drilling a well or giving food,

00:24:22.494 --> 00:24:26.765 align:start line:10% position:45% size:73%
emergency food to people,
rescuing young girls from sex

00:24:26.765 --> 00:24:30.035 align:start line:10% position:50% size:65%
trafficking, the gospel is
always a part of it.

00:24:30.035 --> 00:24:34.540 align:start line:10% position:50% size:75%
And that's what I think really
separates us, all of us here,

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and all of the people that join
with us, in these things,

00:24:38.177 --> 00:24:42.648 align:start line:10% position:45% size:73%
because it's a good work when
you give somebody, you know,

00:24:42.648 --> 00:24:44.750 align:start line:10% position:50% size:50%
clean drinking water
or something to eat.

00:24:44.750 --> 00:24:48.153 align:start line:10% position:50% size:65%
It's a God work when
you do it in Jesus's name.

00:24:48.153 --> 00:24:50.522 align:start line:10% position:47% size:53%
And that's what we're
here to do, God work.

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So I do--by the way, Mark, I
know the book hasn't been out

00:24:54.393 --> 00:24:56.762 align:start line:10% position:50% size:81%
very long, but I think we can
get our hands on a few of these.

00:24:56.762 --> 00:24:59.064 align:start line:10% position:47% size:53%
For anybody that will
make a gift today,

00:24:59.064 --> 00:25:01.400 align:start line:10% position:45% size:73%
can we send them "Wisdom 52?"

00:25:01.400 --> 00:25:02.735 align:start line:10% position:50% size:41%
Mark: We'll make
sure it happens.

00:25:02.735 --> 00:25:04.803 align:start line:10% position:50% size:56%
Randy: We'll make
sure it happens, okay.

00:25:04.803 --> 00:25:06.205 align:start line:10% position:50% size:50%
We are all set here.

00:25:06.205 --> 00:25:09.007 align:start line:10% position:47% size:53%
We are ready to drill
water wells.

00:25:09.007 --> 00:25:11.610 align:start line:10% position:47% size:58%
We're ready to send you
the book if you want.

00:25:11.610 --> 00:25:12.945 align:start line:10% position:48% size:28%
Request it.

00:25:12.945 --> 00:25:15.748 align:start line:10% position:50% size:81%
But most of all, let's put God's
wisdom into action.

00:25:15.748 --> 00:25:19.418 align:start line:10% position:50% size:70%
Let's be generous,
let's do it in Jesus's name.

00:25:19.418 --> 00:25:22.454 align:start line:10% position:44% size:78%
Let's give them water for life.

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announcer: Every day thousands
of lives are lost to waterborne

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disease, and nearly half of
those are children under the age

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of five.

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Through Mission Water for Life,
you can give mothers hope and

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children a future as we provide
clean, fresh drinking water,

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free from the fear of death.

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With your gift today, you can
help drill and establish 350

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water wells this year.

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Your gift of $24 will help
provide clean water for

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5 children.

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A gift of $48 will help provide
for 10, and $144 will help

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provide life-giving water for 30
people for a lifetime.

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With a gift of any amount, we'll
send you "Discovering the Joy of

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Reading God's word."

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Whether you've read the Bible
for years or are just beginning,

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this book invites you to
experience Scripture in a fresh,

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more intimate way.

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With your gift of $100 or more,
you may request "A Life of

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Compassion" coffee table book,
capturing Life Outreach's heart

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for the world.

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Each page pairs timeless Bible
verses with vivid mission field

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photography, making God's Word
visible in action.

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Finally, please consider a gift
of $1200 to help provide water

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for 250 people, or a gift of
$4800 to help sponsor a complete

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well and request Life's
beautiful 2026 bronze sculpture,

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"The Good Shepherd."

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Please call, write, or make your
gift online today.

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Randy: Please do go online, go
to the phone, make the best gift

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you can.

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If you wanna request Mark's
book, we'd love to send it

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to you.

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What a blessing today, Blynda.

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Blynda: It's been so good.

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Mark, thank you so
much for joining us.

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Mark: Well, it's my honor, and
seriously, don't just be wise,

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act wise with what
God has given you.

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Be generous, and his
blessings will flow.

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Randy: It's already there.
Blynda: It is.

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Well, thank you again, and thank
you for joining us today.

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It's been lovely having
you with us,

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and we can't wait to
see you next time.

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announcer: Tomorrow, Mel Chancey
became Hell's Angels' youngest

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chapter president ever.

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Mel Chancey: Losing my freedom
was my rock bottom.

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announcer: "Life Today" is made
possible by the supporters of

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Life Outreach International.

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Your gift will be used
exclusively for the exempt

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purposes of Life.

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The ministry features specific
outreaches as examples of the

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programs it supports
and conducts.

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Gifts are considered to be
without restriction as to use

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unless explicitly
stipulated by the donor.

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The ministry is a member
of the ECFA.